Appeal to those who have it is a poisonous swamp.
Appeal to those who have is poisonous swamp.
Half of this is something I talked about in private when I was younger, but I decided to write it down because it has developed in connection with something else at this time and I don't feel the need to keep it private anymore.
When a man with money behaves appeal (to) that he has money, women will come to him for money #Rich Appeal
This is seemingly "popular", some people make this choice to show off that they are "popular" in the mounting competition among men #motivational appeal
However, if you think about it a little, you can recognize that the person doing it is also coming to you for the money.
A little more thought leads to the perception that "people around me perceive it that way.
This is the pool of venom, which does continuous damage to the [mental
Information can't be retracted, so once you start appealing, you can't quit even if your heart starts to hurt.
So, until you meet someone who you think "is not coming to you for money," you should refrain from such appeals.
You only need one of these partners, you don't need to be popular with a lot of people.
Just having one such partner increases self-assurance and leads to mental stability.
The reason I suddenly remembered this is because I realized that "authority" is the same for middle-aged men.
In other words, if you pretend to have power, people who want to enjoy the benefits of that power will gather around you.
This way you look popular.
But in the end, the same composition as above causes mental damage due to solitude.
mid-crisis
Speaking for myself, I'm not pretending that I have power and I don't, but I really don't. lol
It's nice to be appreciated by people who should know that, because it makes me feel like I'm being appreciated on the inside.
Blessed are the have-nots.
"He who has it is unhappy.
Blessed are the poor (Luke 6.20)
appeal (to)
desire for approval
This is the first thing to begin with poison.
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